The Local Way to Say It
You might think tener (to have) doesn't have a direct command form, but Madrileños use it all the time, especially when giving advice or expressing caution! It's incredibly common to hear it in phrases that translate to 'be careful' or 'have patience.' Instead of sounding like a textbook, using these forms makes you sound like a true local. For example, if you're navigating the bustling streets, a friend might tell you, '¡Ten cuidado al cruzar la Gran Vía!' (Be careful crossing Gran Vía!). Or perhaps you're waiting for something and someone advises, 'Ten paciencia, el metro ya llega.' (Have patience, the metro is coming now.). When addressing a group of friends, you'd hear, '¡Tened cuidado esta noche!' (Be careful tonight!).The 'Grammar Math'
The imperative for tener isn't as straightforward as some regular verbs, as it's an irregular command form. However, once you learn these key conjugations, you'll unlock a very natural way to give advice and commands in Spanish. Here’s the 'grammar math':For tú (informal singular): Ten
For usted (formal singular): Tenga
For nosotros/as (we): Tengamos
For vosotros/as (informal plural, common in Castilian Spanish): Tened
For ustedes (formal plural): Tengan
Focus on ten and tened for everyday, informal use with friends and family in Madrid. These are your go-to forms for direct, friendly advice.